Hola Chicas and Happy New Year! I am making a slow comeback, so I would like to start off the new year by sharing some helpful information about how to achieve healthy coparenting. Since, I found myself navigating this area of my life for the past three years and I know there are many women passing through this phase in their life, so I wanted to share something that was valuable to me. 

So here it goes, short, simply, and informative. 

Healthy coparenting is achievable in every person's life as long as the parent has healed their mental, emotional, and physical pain. The most common emotional pain to heal from is the end of a relationship and/or marriage along with the family unit that did not come into fruition.  When that part is healed along with other areas in your life, then the parent can begin to slowly coexist in harmony to raise a child in two loving environments. 

This process can take time for every individual as the timeline and situations can vary, but respectful communication among two parents is a key factor to success. Using an empathetic and professional tone will help the parents understand schedules and make decisions with education, healthcare, discipline, extracurricular activities, birthdays, holidays and more. 

Below I share 10 tips that have helped me in the process

Every shared tip above had a journey of self-discovery with what no longer is and what was going to shape the present. So, it's vital that every single mother acknowledges each stage.

Remember, healthy coparenting takes time, but when you work in unison and prioritize the child's needs and wellbeing; then parents can create a nurturing environment that will benefit the development of the child. Below are some helpful tools and resources to help navigate this next chapter of your life as well as if it becomes difficult to achieve a mutual ground. 

1. The Five Phases Of Divorce Grief

2. Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women

3. Talking Parents

4. Our Family Wizard